It’s time to check in with one of our favorite family’s.
The Collie’s wake up everyday with the intent to change the way things currently are. So much so, they are moving to Uganda.
In previous posts, What Does Hope Look Like and The Hands, Feet and Faces of Hope we focused on what Sole Hope is as a whole. I want this post to be all about the family.
1.~ How are you feeling right now, in this moment, about the move? I think each person in our family is handling this change differently. Overall we are excited, nervous and full of anticipation for the upcoming change in our lives.
2.~ How have you and Asher prepared the children for such a drastic lifestyle change? We talk about where we are moving-a lot. We have shown them pictures of the house we will be living in, videos and had many, many conversations about what will be different. I don’t think they will be able to wrap their minds around AFRICA until they experience it first hand.
3.~ Have you been surprised by the support you have received? Is it more or less than you thought possible? In some ways, YES! We love to see when people show us support who were never on our radar. The encouraging words and financial support from our friends and even acquaintances has blown us away. We have learned that you cannot lump your friends and family into a category of givers, because they are your friends and family their support is not guaranteed.It has also been disheartening to see which friends and family really don’t show any sort of support…but we have to remember we are not doing this for them or even for our own ego. This is really not about us, but we do have to continually remind ourselves of that. We are so thankful to God for just providing for our needs daily and teaching us humility and patience through this!
4.~ If you could only list one way for people to get involved and support your mission, what would you say? Host a shoe cutting party. This gives you a hands on way to get involved while spreading the word about Sole Hope.
5.~ How does Asher feel about taking a newborn to a country with less than adequate healthcare?
Well, scared and excited. I am excited that I get to raise this baby in a culture that I love and that he will know nothing different. There of course is also a fear of the unknown, and in some cases the known! We know of several diseases that plague Africa and we will take all the precautions we can. But, at the end of the day we know we have to trust ALL of our children to the Lord. Crazy to think-but he loves our children more than we do. Ultimately the decision is about surrender. Surrendering our fears, our lives, our agendas and trusting in the One who called us to this special task.
6.~ What is the biggest challenge facing your family? Change. Change is good, but change is also challenging. We also have needs that we are just trusting the Lord will meet once we get there. For example, we need a 15 passenger van to shuttle the teams that come to help Sole Hope, provide medical relief from jiggers and other daily needs. Sometimes trusting the Lord’s will is a challenge…but it is one we feel like we all should take on-even if we are not living in Africa!
7.~ Do you have any expectation of what the transition will look/feel/be like? We are trying not to have too many expectations, but we know everything about this move will be different. The weather, schooling, our work schedules, lack of family nearby, a different church family, how we prepare our food, the precautions we have to take against water, mosquito’s and other things…the list could go on. We have to remain flexible and positive.
These are a few of the precious faces that changed Dru and Asher in a way that could not be ignored. There are so many ways to get involved. You don’t have to have an extra pile of money lying around. I’m not going to be polite and say, “If you are unable to help at this time, please commit to praying.” Prayer is of the utmost importance…yes. Faith in action is even more important. So if you are hesitant, lazy, indecisive or indifferent, I’m going to pray that God moves you to action and breaks your heart for what breaks his.
In the meantime, check out our faithful family on our favorite social media
Sole Hope Facebook page. (while you’re there, click the “Like” button.)
Follow them on Twitter
Now that all of our excuses have been eliminated I’m going to make it easy for you to remember the mission. Here is a downloadable PDF Sole Hope Reference Card that will attach perfectly to email, is printable for posting on the mirror, dashboard, under windshield wipers, various places in the community, on your Pinterest board, and makes for a wonderful screen saver.
So tell me, “What are you waiting for? Now is the right time.”
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What a wonderful family, this move will change all their lives totally.
I know! I do not have the courage to do something like this. I think they are amazing!
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I am going to commit to doing something. I do not know what; maybe a donation, maybe a shoe cutting party which I would like to know more about the impact that can make. But I will do something.
I know you will, Mark!
I’m sure you do a lot.
I need to host a shoe cutting party in the next 2 weeks.
Have a beautiful holiday season with your family.
Thanks for sharing this story of faith.
You are so welcome. They inspire me to do more.
Amazing article Joy! We love the Collie’s. The next time we visit my mom in Atlanta we will look you up.
Thank you, Brent!
Yes, please do let us know when you are here and we can grab a meal or coffee.
Blessings to you and your family!
Thank you! Definitely! Please do let me know the next time you are in town.